Bellevue Bellingham Everett Federal Way Kitsap County Olympia Renton Seattle Spokane Tacoma Yakima
At any time just click here to go Back
Setting the date

There are a number of superstitions concerning the day on which you are married. For starters, it's best to avoid the thirteenth of any month.

One famous rhyme advises:

Monday for wealth
Tuesday for health
Wednesday the best of all
Thursday for crosses
Friday for losses
Saturday for no luck at all

But in spite of this, most people get married on a Saturday (or a Sunday in some religions). This is so everyone can attend and no one has to take time off work. Friday is the second most popular day, especially if you've set your heart on a certain month and your reception is already booked up.

A lot of couples (the majority) get married in June, July or August. Because, allegedly, the weather is better.

Other popular times of year are Christmas; spring (especially April); early September and Valentine's Day.

Alternatively, what about a date that means something to you? The anniversary of when you first met/kissed/did the deed. Your birthday. The birthday of your favourite film star. The birthday of your favourite film star's mother. Pick a date, any date!

But remember, the earlier you book, the more chance you have of getting the day you want. Once you have a date in mind, you have to find out if it's going to be possible.

There are a few things to consider.

  • Will the vicar/celebrant marry you on that day?
  • Is your ideal venue likely to be available on that day?
  • Have you left yourself enough time to plan and prepare everything?
  • Can the important people attend: parents, bridesmaids, best man, best friends and family?
  • Are there key guests coming from abroad and if so, is this date possible for them?
  • Is this an expensive time to hire venues/caterers etc (see setting out to save money)?
  • Can you both get the time off work for a honeymoon?
  • Will the weather be a problem at this time of year?
  • If your wedding day is not on a weekend, can guests get time off work for it?
  • (Mostly for grooms) does the wedding day coincide with a cup final/ other important sporting event/ interfere with another mate's stag do/ land on the same day as the launch of the next Star Wars prequel?
(Just for the brides) Does the wedding date coincide with your period?

Cutting costs?

If you are looking to cut costs on your wedding - and let's face it, who isn't? - then go for an out of season date.

The weather is never predictable in the UK, so why not go for October, November, January or March? These months will often mean cheaper hire charges, less hassle with (and cheaper) accommodation and if you go for seasonal flowers and menus, you can reduce costs all round.

If you are getting married abroad, then out of season is sensible. Popular beach wedding venues are often unbearably hot in August anyway and think how much more your wedding guests will appreciate being out of the country, out of season! Not to mention the savings you'll make on flights and hotels...

Midweek weddings are another way to cut costs. Sometimes caterers and venues are cheaper mid-week, or you can strike a deal, anyway. Don't forget though, this may shorten your guest list, as invitees may need to take two or more days off work to fit in with you.
Tips & Articles
Q & A's, Helpful Facts
Planning & Worksheets
At any time just click here to go Back
Who We Are ~ Advertising Options
This site was designed, and maintained by AMS Interactive